Let’s Talk About You
Happy Friday, all! I thought I’d start the day off with a really cute picture of my dog, Desh. Isn’t he adorable? He’s 4 years old and bred from two cockapoos. He’s pretty human-like. He uses the sidewalks when at all possible, uses pillows and arm rests on chairs and mimics me in the morning when I yawn. I couldn’t imagine life without the fur ball!
Anyways, onto YOU. Last August I wrote a post titled, Let’s Talk About You, and it was a way for me to get to know my readers. I thought I would do it again (and more often) since that’s mostly why I blog: to meet new people.
So in the comment section, feel free to answer the following questions (And try to leave out links within the comment – it shoots it to comment moderation or spam! Your name will link to your site when filling out the comment form!)
- Are you a dog or cat person?
- Did you or are you taking a vacation this summer? If so, where?
- What is one thing you splurge on? (perhaps it’s: the perfect office chair? brand name Oreos? silk sheets?)
- Do you believe in soul mates?
- The year is more than half over. What’s one goal you have for the rest of 2013?
Like every other post here, I do my best to respond to every single comment so we’ll chat soon!
*My answers: dog person, we went to Brooklyn in June, gel manis every two weeks, nope, get back on track with our financial goals
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Iceland is amazing! You will love it. We went last year, and I’ve been telling everyone I know to go to Iceland. It is just so breathtaking in unexpected ways. It’s unlike anything I’d ever seen before. I’d love to go back.
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Yay! I am so so excited – we’re only there for four days or so, but I’ve already got an itinerary as long as my arm!
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I must say: our cats love us. The whole family. Specially the older cat -she’s mega sweet, calm, respectful, caring… She actually wakes up and go to the door to greet us when we arrive from a night out (no matter what time it is) and to greet my husband when she’s leaving for work. Lovely thing!!!
She’s also super smart and absolutely does everything we say (go up, go down, go out, go in, etc). I’m now taking advantage of this and trying to teach her how to do the dishes -this will save me loads of time. LOL
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Thanks for the awesome post! :) That’s one thing I love about you and your blog: getting personal with your readers.
I’m a pet person (dogs, cats, chinchillas, you name it!) -right now we have 2 cats.
NO vacation in almost 10 years here. =/ We plan to go to Boston around August (fingers crossed!).
I spend a lot on furniture, specially for the office. Crazy, I know!
I do. Such a rare thing though.
Lose weight. This has been my goal for the past 3 years (unsuccessfully lol). Thankfully all other goals for the year have been achieved (happy dance!).-
Oh, no!!! My next purchase was planned to be on IKEA. Oh, man! So the stuff is cute, but cheap. Well, figures -the price IS cheap. lol
I usually buy from local and small furniture shops in a Portuguese community in New Jersey.
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1. I’m totally a dog person. I have a 7 year old golden retriever that was a birthday gift from my ex. She’s been my faithful furry friend and traveled with me all over the states.
2. I’m not really taking a vacation, but I have done some camping and spent some days at the lake in NC.
3. Shoes, my bed, a quality couch…. wait that’s three things…oopps
4. Eh… dunno if I believe in soul mates necessarily. I don’t think it’s about finding the perfect person…. it’s more about becoming your best self.
5. I want to finish my kitchen remodel. I’m so tired of the mish-mash I have going on in there right now.
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Um, I like dogs much more than cats, but can I add my own? I’m a chicken person! :)
I’m going to MIchigan for two weeks next month & we’re adding a day & a half on at the end of the trip to get some Chicago pizza & a few glimpses of Navy Pier. Last (likely) trip before our baby arrives in December.
I like nice candles and coffee, but am the bargainist shopper for most things.
I think soul mates CAN exist, but I don’t think they’re required for happiness. I love my husband so much, but more now than ten years ago because of all the work we’ve put into our marriage.
My goal for the rest of the year is to finish baby’s nursery & take great care of myself to have the healthiest pregnancy I can. Possibly also get control of our finances again, too. :)
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1. I am a cat person. While I can appreciate the cuteness of dogs, I don’t want one. We have a cat. She is purr-fect.
2. We took a Disney Cruise in the spring and plan a short trip to the Hocking Hills in the next two weeks. I am planning a solo trip to NYC in the fall. Shhh…. don’t tell anyone.
3. I continue to splurge on the Umba Box. The variety is great. The things that don’t suit me, I have given as gifts and they were perfect. I have developed a great network of small artsy business– and I have made follow up purchases, given gifts. It feels decadent… giving myself a little surprise each month.
4. I do, but not in the one and only kind of way. I think we are energetic drawn to certain people. We some how are able to “know” them on a deeper level. I do not believe in the one and only…
5. Once school is back in session, I plan to start writing in earnest again.
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Aw, your pup is absolutely adorable! :)
I honestly love both dogs and cats. I have two cats right now (big, lazy barn cats that are brothers). I hope someday in the future I can get a dog. I once came across a French bulldog puppy and immediately knew that was the kind of dog I wanted.
Sadly, no vacations for me this summer. We’re saving up money for our next big move on October 1st and for Christmas presents. I hope to make it up next year with plenty of traveling.
I like to splurge on a really good bag of coffee from Intelligentsia. I tell myself it doesn’t really count as splurging since I’ve been making my own iced coffee all summer, haha.
I don’t really believe in soul mates. When it comes to love and relationships, I like to think of this instead:
“We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.”My goal for the rest of 2013 is to keep saving up and possibly pay off one of my smaller student loans. Fingers crossed!
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1. I think I’m both? I currently have a cat (bootsie) who has completely changed my life. But I would love to have a dog when I have a house with room for it to run around
2. I took a weekend trip with a friend to louieville, KY and it was a blast! Also I’m planning a trip to Nashville in September for one of my best friends wedding, so I’m definitely looking forward to checking out all the cool little spots! And Hatch of course!
3. this month I’ve splurged on cooking classes. I took a macaron class last weekend and I’m taking a mexican class this weekend. that and everything at target :P
4. Deep down I do, but lately I’ve been having the “I’m 26, when is this gonna happen” feeling. I know it will, but sometimes I get tired of the dating game
5. I’m always shocked when it’s July. Like, how did this happen so quick?! The rest of the year I want to continue doing freelance chalk stuff and start selling cards and invites on etsy. I also want to get back into my work out routine and try different classes (bare ballet, hip hop, POUND, more kick boxing)
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1. Dog person! We just adopted a Chihuahua/Beagle puppy in May and he is the love of our lives! (PS – your dog is so dang adorable! Goodness!)
2. For our 2 year wedding anniversary in June we took a trip down to San Diego <3
3. Quality hair care products and makeup. The toxins are not worth the cheap price!
4. Not really. I love my husband to death, but the concept of soul mates doesn't seem all that romantic to me.
5. I have lots of goals! I just started a year-long happiness project where I tackle 4 goals per month. I'm excited to see where the year takes me :) -
1. Totally a dog person. Cats sort of freak me out.
2. Currently on my summer vacation in Rome and next week in Paris. Loving every minute.
3. I don’t think I can type this for the world to see, but in the spirit of sharing, I’ll send you a DM. Lol. Also, I realize saying what I just said allows for imaginations to run wild, but hopefully you’re the only one that reads the comments and so you’ll be the one to get a good laugh :)
4. I agree with you – A big nope on that one. It makes it sound too easy.
5. The same goal I’m working on in Sucker Punch Monday – Creating a community of hostesses and entertainers on my blog! -
Logan Potts
I’m pretty convinced dogs are soul mates. My chocolate lab Ellie is so much like me. We look a lot alike too I think.
Are you a dog or cat person?
I love all dogs.
Did you or are you taking a vacation this summer? If so, where?
Headed to the coast next weekend. Either Charelston, Savanah, Destin, Seaside or Gulf Shores. What’s your favorite east coast/gulf beach?
What is one thing you splurge on?
I’ll drop the extra money for American made quality tools always. Oh and for the best pad Thai in town at Dmiling Elephant. TREAT YO SELF
Do you believe in soul mates?
I’m more of a romantic than I care to let on to. So yes. But true love is hard & a battle of selflessness with whomever one is with.
The year is more than half over. What’s one goal you have for the rest of 2013?
Trying to do a new piece every week. I’d like to take the full plunge into self employment again this late fall. Catching the Christmas rush.
Hey thanks for asking!
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i. I was quite sure I was always a cat person … until I got a dog, a Mini Aussie.
ii. We didn’t take any trips this year due to the baby coming but we are planning wonderful trips for next year/ summer.
iii. Recently I’ve grown a scarf fascination. It’s hit as Hades outside and I’m stuck on my autumn/ winter fashion. Actually, let’s just say accessories overall because I love bows and jewelry and anything that brings out “who I am”
iv. I don’t. I don’t think that one singular soul is out there waiting for you when there are billions of people in the world who need someone to com into their life and love them the way they need to be. Plus I feel like I’ve loved too many times for there to be just one person to complete me.
v. Heh, I have a lot of inner things I want to get done before the end of the year. But if I had a true goal, I would have to say figure out my business and fix our financial issues as well.
I love bloggers who want to get to know their readers and communicate with them. Thanks for asking, honestly.
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1. Cat, all the way! Though I really do enjoy fluffy little dogs like Desh. They make me think I’d be ok getting a dog.
2. We went to Costa Rica in June with my husband’s company. We’re headed to Flagstaff in August, Chicago in September (for the STORY conference), and potentially Nashville in October. It’s a busy few months!
3. I’m not much of a splurger. I’m more of a buy-things-when-they’re-40%-off-clearance kinda girl. But I do buy Josie Maran argan oil moisturizer with SPF. I’m very fair and have had too many severe sunburns in my life. So I guess that’s a splurge, but I consider it necessary!
4. I don’t know if I believe in soul mates. I do know that there’s no one else I could’ve successfully married at 22 other than my husband!
5. I want to dominate JavaScript, successfully build a couple Ruby on Rails apps, and figure out whether I prefer front or back end development so that I can move toward freelancing or a full-time job in the fall. I also want to keep building my blog and introduce a fun new feature or series. So many goals for the rest of the year!
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Hello! Oh I’d love to make a new blog friend!
Are you a dog or cat person?
DOG person for sure, all the way, 100 percent. Absolutely. Completely. No question.Did you or are you taking a vacation this summer? If so, where?
I normally go to Acadia Maine (if you have never been, you seriously have to), and last year I went to Germany and France as well. But this year just a few camping trips.What is one thing you splurge on? (perhaps it’s: the perfect office chair? brand name Oreos? silk sheets?)
My college education! As expensive as my private college is, it’s worth it, because I love it.Do you believe in soul mates?
Not in the way that there is one person for another person. But in the way that when we connect with someone (anyone), we connect through our souls.The year is more than half over. What’s one goal you have for the rest of 2013?
Hmmm, land a photography internship with a wedding photographer in Boston for second semester.Thank you so much for asking, you seem so genuine and wonderful!
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Definitely a dog person. I don’t dislike cats – and grew up having them – I just never need my own. They just aren’t always loving and loyal like dogs. Too finicky.
We went to Vegas in May for my sister’s wedding (she lives there). We are actually tired of Vegas, but love to visit her of course. Not taking another…we have a lot to do to get ready for a baby this fall
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Splurge…hmmm…I get a $50 haircut because Nurtur is an amazing salon. My hair is superfine and straight and would look just as good with a $20 hack job. I only need to go about 4 times per year though.I don’t believe in soul mates. I think you can love more than one person in your life – otherwise people who get divorced or widowed could never find true love again. There are different levels of love and maybe you can be more connected to one than another, but I don’t know that I could call it soul mates.
To not suck at being first-time parents, lol! Seriously though…that’s a lot of pressure. I want to enjoy it and not be stressed and worried about everything. I’m quite laid-back, so I should be fine, but still need to keep it as a goal.
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1.Are you a dog or cat person? dog person
2.Did you or are you taking a vacation this summer? If so, where? It would seem that summer camp with 500+ high school students was my summer vacation this year…but that’s okay (see #4!)
3.What is one thing you splurge on? (perhaps it’s: the perfect office chair? brand name Oreos? silk sheets?) Not sure there’s anything I regularly splurge on… I have been known to splurge on mascara, but have discovered I prefer CoverGirl to Dior… who knew?
4.Do you believe in soul mates? of the friend variety for sure. Romantically? Not so much.
5.The year is more than half over. What’s one goal you have for the rest of 2013? to finish raising the support I need and to travel it to Australia for 8 months with YWAM
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I totally meant to reference question 5 as to why I’m not mad about no vacation this year… instead I reference 4 which is awkward and doesn’t make sense, ha.
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1. Definitely a dog person, though I don’t have one right now. I went to a pet store with a friend yesterday and it was all I could do not to take a puppy home with me.
2. No vacations planned really. I moved to the suburbs of Chicago a little over a year ago and haven’t done too much exploring, so I’m hoping to wander the suburbs and spend more time in the city.
3. Hair cuts. I refuse to go to those cheap “salons”, like great clips. My hair tends to misbehave so a good cut is crucial.
4. I don’t think so. It puts way to much pressure on finding “the one.”
5. I’m working on getting healthy. I’ve ate horribly for so long and not been very active and I’ve definitely been feeling the effects. I’m in the middle of doing Whole30 right now so my goal is to finish that strong and get into a good routine of exercising and eating well.
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1. I’d say dog, but really I prefer reptiles haha. Fish, frogs, lizards, snakes. :P
2. It’s Winter here in New Zealand, but I have been hanging out for a trip. My best friend and I were going to hit up Rarotonga (islands not far from here) to get some warmth. But instead we are going to Melbourne in Australia for a shopping trip in September. I can’t freaking wait!
3. Camera gear haha. I think even if we hadn’t gotten into doing wedding and other photography, we still would have ended up buying a crapload of camera gear just for fun. Nearly have an entire set of prime lenses, just one to go really! The 135mm.
4. No. I pretty much agree with most people above who said not really.
5. My goal for the rest of the year is to finally quit my full time graphic design job and go freelance – predominantly photography but a bit of graphic design in there too! Especially in the Winter months. -
I love both, really. I have 3 cats and 2 dogs.
I’m pregnant so the only summer vacation I’m taking is staycation -_-
I splurge on furniture pieces, my hair, makeup and my closet. I’d rather have one nice thing of something than a bunch of cheap items taking up my space. And I splurge on my hair. My weekly blow dries save my sanity.
I believe based on your decisions in life, you’ll be bound to meet someone for you, but not “soul mate”.
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1. I’m a cat person. I have two kittens and a full sized cat currently. I was really allergic to cats when I was young, but I seem to have mostly grown out of the allergy. It only really bothers me if I have to do a task like cleaning the litter box.
2. My boyfriend and I took a weekend getaway to Vermont to visit some friends in June, but I just started a new job and he’s super busy with his work currently so I don’t think we’ll get another getaway in until the fall.
3. Electronics and alcohol.
4. I don’t know.
5. I want to pay off my back taxes by the end of the year.
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i love these posts! i love the direction the blog is taking:
1. i don’t have an opinion on that yet. i’d rather not make anyone angry. i love how adorably human dogs are, but at the same time… have you all seen the disney aristocats?
2. i concentrated my traveling in three weeks at the beginning of the summer and i just came back. i’m still editing and sharing pictures on the blog. i went to menorca with friends and to the italian alps with my family.
3. the mac laptop i bought with babysitting money. it sounds dramatic, but it changed my life.
4. i don’t think so, but who knows?
5. send out good college applications. you have no idea of how much that stresses me out.
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1. I own a dog and two cats, and while I absolutely love my dog to pieces and can’t imagine not having her around, I’ll admit, I’m a llllleeeeeeeeettttllllleeee bit more of a cat person. I think it’s because I’m an introvert. Cats are very much introverts.
2. No vacation for me – sigh. But I’m hoping to get to go to Chicago in early November to go see “Wicked” (for the fourth time!).
3. I always splurge on chocolate. I don’t eat Hershey’s – I want the good stuff. I’d rather have a small piece of good quality chocolate than an entire bar of cheap stuff.
4. I don’t think so – but is that because there aren’t any or because I haven’t met mine? I am a true Missourian, you have to show me before I believe it.
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1. This is a tough one and I can never decide. I am always cuddling dogs and cats when I see them. Sadly I can’t adopt any as my fiance is allergic to animal hair :(
2. I already took my annual vacation to McLeod Ganj, Himachal Pradesh, India. It is a Tibetan settlement and mighty beautiful. We had a lovely, relaxed time there eating delicious food and also met such friendly and warm people.
3. One thing I splurge on is organic food. I love to roam the aisles in a market and buy health/organic/new/interesting food.
4. I do believe in soul mates. I also believe that a person can have more than one. Strange but true for me.
5. The biggest and most common goal – to get back into shape. I plan to start yoga and running for now. -
Are you a dog or cat person?
Dog! I have two.Did you or are you taking a vacation this summer? If so, where?
No big vacations this year. Will be doing a few day trips to the beach though.What is one thing you splurge on?
Perfume.Do you believe in soul mates?
Yes. Though I’m still waiting to meet mine. ;)The year is more than half over. What’s one goal you have for the rest of 2013?
Simplify my life and get rid of all of the unnecessary clutter. Began that project this weekend. -
Megan
1. I’m a cat person. We’ve always had cats throughout my childhood. I love dogs (especially collies), but I’m very allergic.
2. I took a vacation to Lake Winnebago this summer. It was fantastic!
3. I splurge on jewelry. I love rings especially, so I’ll definitely spend a pretty penny on an awesome ring, especially if it is handmade!
4. I believe that we have people we are destined to meet and have in our lives, but I think that potentially there could be one or more person that could be your “soul mate.” It all depends on timing!
5. I want to restart my clean eating and simplify my life in any means possible! I graduate college in December and I’ll be going through a big transition, so I hope that my life can be as balanced and stress free when that happens! -
1. I’m not really an animal person
2. No vacation plans this summer. I did go to Hawaii in April for my honeymoon
3. I splurge on skincare products. I like taking care of my skin and sometimes I splurge on makeup, too!
4. Sort of.
5. My goal for the rest of the year is to put in more and more effort into my blog as the year goes on. -
1. cats!
2. yes, we just got back from nashville
3. getting a pedicure with my mom once a month
4. yes
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1. Are you a dog or cat person? I have a cat but really love dogs more. They just exude love and personality. My cat’s okay but he certainly doesn’t feel it’s his mission in life to shower me with love :)
2. Did you or are you taking a vacation this summer? If so, where? Taking a few shorter trips here and there…already been to Ohio and Charleston, SC. Next up is Portland, Maine and California for the Ohio State game in September!
3. What is one thing you splurge on? Rent and travel. NYC is an expensive place to live AND get away from!
4. Do you believe in soul mates? No.
5. The year is more than half over. What’s one goal you have for the rest of 2013? Sit on the couch and relax. I feel like I’ve been running around like crazy since January 1. -
1. Are you a dog or cat person? Most definitely a cat person. Though I seem to be married to and have spawned a dog loving family?
2. Did you or are you taking a vacation this summer? If so, where? I am on vacation right now! At our lakehouse in Northern MI. We go on a ton of mini vacations year round as well.
3. What is one thing you splurge on? Mexican Coke. Obviously.
4. Do you believe in soul mates? No. But I do believe in Co-Pilots.
5. The year is more than half over. What’s one goal you have for the rest of 2013? To find the right people to collaborate with.
Amy
What an absolute cutie pie Desh is! I am definitely a dog person (but I own a cat – who hates me). I yearn after a beagle puppy in the same way I imagine other people yearn for babies!
We’re off to Iceland but it’s more of an autumn holiday than a summer one. I can’t wait though – I’ve got my fingers crossed that we see the Northern Lights!
I always splurge on steak. There’s no point doing it if you’re not doing it right, and our butcher stocks the most beautiful fillet steak, I just can’t resist.
No, I don’t think I do believe in soul mates. I think that idea negates the work that goes into relationships – they don’t just magically happen (unfortunately!).
And my goal for the year is to survive my Master’s degree. It finishes in September but I just can’t think past that moment right now. Just a few weeks left, but it’s sucking the life out of me – I’m ready for it to be over!
This was a super fun post idea – thanks :)